I received the invitation to Skirt Club’s San Francisco launch party on a cold Saturday in January. It’s lesbianism: our little secret, for women whose bi-curiosity has become too overwhelming to ignore. It’s “lesbianism” that lesbians will recognize, but have a hard time endorsing without some irony.
This is the kind of awkward, lighthearted, lesbianism many women either had – or wished they’d had – in college. This is Katy Perry singing “I kissed a girl and I liked it.” This is an Agent Provocateur window display. There are usually fun DJs, full-out dancing, pool hangs, demonstrations, classes and s.e.x.The invitation to Skirt Club, a women-only, bisexual and bi-curious sex party, tells you one thing, loud and clear: This may be a girls-only orgy, but it’s not lesbianism as you know it. It’s a water-themed rainbow event celebrating kink, fetish and body positivity. Sapphic Aquatica is the female-only sex party that happens bi-monthly on the final Sunday of the month. Oasis Aqualounge is unreal and super supportive of a healthy sexy romp. Wet wipes, condoms and lube are provided.īi-monthly on the last Sunday of the month. It’s a playful, raunchy, sexually charged event with secluded dark areas, private booths, a sex maze, slings, fuck benches and a bar. Didn’t get laid this weekend? This Sunday space will pretty much guarantee that happens.
“A hard man is easy to find” here, cover is $15, consensual bareback sex is permitted, and there often guest gay porn stars to set the mood. Someone should capture this in candle form.įeel like getting flogged for the first time? Tied up? Dripping some hot wax on your partner while you have them in ankle restraints and nipple clamps? Us too! Kink 101 is a night for whatever you’re into, with a bit of guidance if you need it.Ĭheck the website for dates, but this male-focused afternoon sex party really isn’t about the music, it’s about having gay sex. Honestly, when the night gets hot and heavy, it smells like butt on the dancefloor. There’s a rotating cast of great DJs who mostly play progressive house, go-go boys, beer deals and lots of butt. The concept is simple: come in, check you clothes (not mandatory, but you’ll have a lot more fun if you do, and no one is judging in here), sport your fave jock strap and cruise. Leather or other fetish-gear highly encouraged but not mandatory.” Bring all your dark, twisted fantasies and see what happens. In organizer Jeremy Feist’s words, “All leather, BDSM and kink enthusiasts welcome. It’s a night where you can show up, check all your clothes, strap on your dog mask and butt-butt plug tail, get on all fours and beg for training. This monthly leather and gear night is for folx who have invested in the world of chaps, vests, jocks and other fetish gear. This party is meant for everyone to feel like a VIP, and with all the cozy dark corner at the Eagle, all the latex on the floor and extremely dance-able sets from the booth, this is dance party where your inner fantasies are welcomed and heavily pet. Bring your inner freak, however you express it. This is an all-gender, techno-focused dance night with a mini-sex-maze bonus upstairs and an overall vibe of anything-goes.
Freak like meĪ new kid on the sexy party block, this one from the brilliant minds of DJs Babygirl, Karim Olen Ash and Chippy Nonstop. There are activities, prizes, and of course lots of settings to get down with proudly chubby guys. Big boys in the hot tubs, showers and saunas, yes please! Bonus: the team behind BIE also throw an event called Chubs in the Tubs, six times a year. This monthly bathhouse event is geared towards bears and their admirers.